love should make you stronger, not weaken you.
love should make you being grateful for what God’s given to you, not make you envious or hateful.
love should make you realize what you’re lack in, and still being glad to have it.
‘Cause there’s one who complete it.
love should make you always and always wanna be a better one, develop more to the best you can be.
For your and your beloved sake.
love should make you realize how deep is the love of One creating love itself to you.
And thus, make you love Him more than anything.
if your love make you feel breathless more than it cooling down your head,
if your love make you drowned in tears rather than force you smiling unconsciously,
if your love make you a worrisome one in time it should give you a peace of mind,
then maybe it’s one of two:
it’s not worth to hold,
or you should ask yourself, what’s your definition of love again.
Love isn’t something consists only of happiness. It’s right.
So as how we grown up.
We won’t get this far if we never know how to cry.
But, you see,
those cries always get us to another step of maturity.
And, I think,
so as love should be.
It’s something both happiness and sorrow it bring along,
will strengthen us and grown us more.
Bandung, October 23rd 2012